Our new homeostatic static is one of polycrisis, basically.
From inflamed macro-global issues,
- Oil crisis, war, political madness, poverty, climate change, rogue AI outbreaks and corruption;
And national or local issues,
- (un)affordable housing, gender-based health and workplace injustice, national security, e-bike safety, interest rates, kids buying vapes, juvenile crime, and whose in charge at the local dog park.
To scarring micro-personal issues,
- Divorce, family violence, cost of living, redundancy, death, disability, dementia, discrimination, family trauma, peri-menopause, aging parents, sick kids, and mould in the bathroom.
It can feel like everything’s on fire.
Social media doom scrolls.
That little voice in your head whispering “you’re not enough.”
All of this builds into a kind of mental metaverse: a world of belief, fear, and self-talk we end up living inside. And more often than not, it leans one way:
“Everything is bad. Nothing makes sense. And I can’t do anything about it.”
Sound familiar?
You’re not alone. We’re all soaking in it. Burnout, overwhelm, uncertainty… the emotional wallpaper of modern leadership.
So… where’s the ‘Burnout Off’ switch?
While working on my book, I went deep-diving into the weeds underlying all these kinds of narratives, especially in events, tech/AI and marketing worlds.
And one thing became painfully clear:
We’ve lost hope as a story genre.
Not completely. But it’s quieter. We’re tuning into collapse and tragedy story arcs like Shakespearean loyalists. Themes like destiny, comedy, hope and romance are flickering out.
Which is a problem. Because years and years of human wiring seek pattern recognition of ancient storytelling. Patterns comfort and calm our brains.
The schema and structure of storytelling behind such pattern recognition has been the focus of decades of research. Most of you are familiar with Joseph Campbell’s ‘The Hero’s Journey’ for example. I go into those theories in great detail, and why it matters to brand storytelling today, in my first book, ‘Beliefonomics: realise the true value of your brand story’ showing how belief drives behaviour, and behaviour drives sales.
For now, there are three core elements of every storytelling pattern getting irreparably damaged in this age of polycrisis. From ancient gatherings around a fire, to every Disney movie, ever, you’ll notice:
- There is always a hero, and a villain. Goodies, and baddies.
- There is always a story arc. Highs and lows. Wins and losses. Trials and tribulations. Car chases and love scenes. Fear and courage.
- There is always a destiny story. An end point. A crescendo that strengthens anticipated closure. The known destiny of our hero gives comfort through chaos.
Enter: ‘Hope Theory’ - it’s a thing
A psychologist named C.R. Snyder developed something called Hope Theory. It’s more than a nice idea. It’s a proven framework for how people actually bounce back aka build resilience, when fuelled by hope.
Hope isn’t fluffy. It’s functional.
As I write in my book, The STORY CODE for Leaders™, this is exactly why the work of building storytelling mindset matters:
“It unlocks hope, belonging and a sense of agency for leaders who feel stuck, overwhelmed or burnt out” (p. 14).
According to Snyder, hope needs three things:
- Goals: a vision for what’s possible.
- Pathways: ways to get there.
- Agency: belief that you can make it happen.
It’s a mindset, sure. But it’s also deeply practical. When you’ve got hope, you don’t just feel better. You do better. You think clearer. You lead differently. You make healthier choices.
What the research says about hope at work
The research backs this up. A 2013 meta-analysis in the Journal of Positive Psychology, covering 45 studies and 11,139 employees, found hope is linked to stronger work performance and better employee wellbeing. And the effect was stronger for women.
That matters, because Australian workplaces are under real strain. Allianz Australia research released in March 2026 found nearly two million Australian employees often lose sleep over work stress and pressure, and 74% of employees surveyed believe their organisation has no clear strategy to reduce workplace burnout. That gap is the business case for hope.
What a loss of hope was like for me
I had my own personal crash in 2019. Burnout. Panic attack. The works.
I was still “performing” on the outside (leading, speaking, pushing forward), but inside? I was lost in a story that didn’t feel like mine anymore.
And then something small but powerful happened.
My psychologist looked me in the eye and said, “You’re going to get better.”
That one sentence flipped the script. It gave me just enough belief to take the first step. And then the next. Sleeping better. Eating better. Moving. Meditating. Reflecting. Rebuilding.
Slowly, that story of hope became a habit. A reality. A future.
Six years on, I still stand by what I wrote:
“I’ve recaptured hope for the future, recovered my energy and developed an exciting vision for inspiring and equipping people to take a healthier path through life’s travails” (The Story Code for Leaders, p. 10).
So, how do you flip the ‘hopeless’ script?
Right now, we’re all caught between two competing narratives:
One says: “It’s all going downhill. Fighting is hopeless.”
The other says: “There is always hope. I can make a difference.”
Hope lives right in the middle of that tension. It’s not easy. It’s not blind optimism. It’s active. Intentional. Sometimes messy.
But it works.
If you’re feeling stuck, cynical, or just plain tired, try this:
1.
Pause the noise.
What stories are you consuming on autopilot? Are they helping you lead… or holding you back?
2.
Check your internal monologue.
Are you believing something like:
“I can’t make a difference.”
“It’s too late.”
“Why even try?”
If so, it’s time to question that voice and look for evidence for a different headline story.
Not sure what your inner monologue is really saying? What’s your narrative intelligence score?
3.
Create your next chapter.
Write down one thing you want to see change in your life, your team, your world. Then tune in to what your inner critic started saying about it: Overwrite the critic with factual evidence for how and why you can do it, from precedent. Then decide on one small next step toward this change, and take it.
4.
Remember: you’re the author.
You might not control the news cycle, but you do control the stories you tell yourself. And your narrative shapes everything.
It’s a point Dr Renu Burr made when I interviewed her for the book: courage in leadership starts with listening to your own story and asking, “Is it really true?” Read more in my interview with Dr Renu Burr.
Final Thought: You’re Living in a Story. So Make It a Good One.
We all share this mental metaverse. But the good news?
You get to choose which script you live by.
If you’ve been running the “everything is bad” program for too long… maybe it’s time for an upgrade, a key to crack the code, dare I say. In my book, CODE is a four-step process of rewriting the stories holding you back (p. 14):
C is for CHALLENGE: Face your inner critic and expose the limiting beliefs driving its script.
O is for OVERWRITE: Choose your new lead character Archetype and rewrite key scenes.
D is for DECIDE: Make a decision to learn and internalise the new story.
E is for ENCODE: Develop healthy habits for life. Change everything with your new story.
The full CODE process is in my book, The STORY CODE for Leaders™.
Hope isn’t naive. It’s necessary. As I put in the book, stories are “vital for navigating hardships and finding hope” (p. 21). In a workplace of rising burnout and AI anxiety, hope is a commercial advantage. Figuring out how to spark hope might be the boldest leadership strategy you make right now.
Onwards.
Want your leaders to rewrite the story they lead by? My keynote Rewrite Your Future brings Hope Theory and The STORY CODE™ to your stage. Check availability.




